Showing posts with label Ceteris Paribus. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ceteris Paribus. Show all posts

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Boardroom Woman and her leadership.



Women started entering organisations 5 decades back and have gradually gone up the corporate ladder / hierarchy. Her sustained presence in the organisation has made her acquire leadership status.Women have been generally employed during consolidation phases and not in growth stages. The trend is fast changing.

Woman and Leadership

Women encounter various issues being in leadership positions.

1)At home generally women are not used to handling power and handling power is a challenge.This also involves the job of delegating jobs to subordinates.

2)Exercising authority is something that women have not done in history. Its completely new to her.The jokes that we read about a woman being supreme at home and her husband being a slave is a good for a laugh but if you just go deep into it its been the men who exercise authority.

3)Women in the past have been meeting no one except her relatives.Meeting customers, suppliers and handling government agencies is a challenge in itself.

4)Women now take part in policy formulation and strategy planning which is considered to be a part of top level management.She has truly risen high.

5)She has got to face lot of opinion differences with superiors , colleagues and subordinates . How she puts forward her point and convinces others is where the skills for leadership arise.

Women generally refuses leadership because of 3 reasons.

a)Blame it on the ethic less business culture prevalent in the society.Women have always been portrayed as ethical and good and may be that's why she refuses to a position where ethics are not prevalent.

b)The main reason is the fear of efficiently managing workplace and familial roles .The balancing act.

c)Also, career paths in organisations are not designed in a way so that women can climb up the ladder.Her aspirations are surrendered the moment she gets going in the organisations. I feel the trend is changing.

Life Space

Life space is the space available for women to be on their own. Generally 80 % of space is for motherhood , 10 % of the space is for the in-laws.5 % of space is for the other related roles and the remaining 5 % of the space is for the role of a wife.The 'self space' of a woman consists of all that is within her-the emotions ,feelings , wishes ,dreams and aspirations.The Identity of a woman is reflected by the multiple roles as they evolve over a period of time,the choices and actions initiated and withheld and the paths chosen consciously or unconsciously.

Although Women are capable , competent and committed , they are grappled with issues of Independence and autonomy.The social coding of being a mother ,daughter,daughter-in-law,wife has in a way made them to surrender their dreams and aspirations to be a good daughter , wives & mothers.

This creates immense stress in the husband-wife relationship.Motherhood creates guilt due to children's expectations of a mother who is always available at home.The in-laws are not generally not supportive but demanding and critical.Moreover,they add to the woman's guilt by criticizing and judging her involvement in work negativity.Other social demands from the woman's own family and the network of social relationships make further demands on her space and time. The more she is engaged in work , the more discontent is voiced by the societal system.


Women with Substance


Women grapple with the feeling whether home and work represent their own space,and whether they have ownership of these spaces.The perception is that home space belongs to the father or husband and the workspace belongs to male colleagues.Women are largely operative in other people's spaces and many have no personal sense of freedom and belonging.

I believe a Woman with Substance is one who is able to balance her space. If she fails
the biggest task would be playing the roles of daughter,daughter-in-law,wife at home and corporate leader at workplace since there is complex interplay of emotions and it becomes very difficult to prioritize.

A Mother is Leader
A woman is a mother also. Child rearing is an art itself.It is not easy , its a challenge.When a woman raises a child , she understands and learns about herself.The commitment to leadership and as a parent she strings to make the world a better place for the young one and this is nothing else but leadership.

Women and men both are leaders , but women have some things that men do not possess.
Lets be fair in our assessment.How significantly this is relevant with leadership I do not know but it is relevant.

a)Empathy:- E.g. A woman understands her child better than a father.

b)Flexible and Negotiable:- E.g.It is common knowledge here that getting a sign on the report card is easier with the mother.

c)They are perceived to have the country club style of leadership

Her Future

For women in the corporate world, the past may contain many memories.Some good,some bad;some creative ,some destructive;some glowing with radiance ,others with hate;some with guilt and shame , others with pride and achievement . These memories have added up to give vast panorama of experiences.

The future beckons.. some words are to be replaced.
Instead of dreams - commitment
Instead of aspirations - choices
Instead of fear - courage

Women have entered organizations in a big way. They have crossed new thresholds and are carving a niche for themselves in various fields and are blazing a new path for the future generations.

The future will perhaps witness leaders who will not be Identified by their gender but by their capability , their vision and their competence.

Tuesday, April 07, 2009

What if all of us looked alike ??!!

This is something that I have been pondering over years..

While each and every other living being in this world looks alike ( obviously within their own 'clan'), Why is that only in the 'Human Clan' all look different.?

The reason cannot be for 'Recognition' purposes alone because the 'cats' and 'dogs' not only recognize but also communicate with each other with no sense of confusion of who's who.( Truly Amazing!)

The scientific answer to my question is the DNA(Deoxy riboNucleic Acid).
The main function of a DNA in living organisms is to duplicate itself. A sequence of several DNA's form genes which is the main reason for the physical characteristics of a living being. DNA might sometimes undergo sudden changes called mutations. This is the reason for different features. Also, it depends on where the genes are placed on the chromosomes.(bloody hell!!)

Lets forget Science(I forgot long back) for a moment and connect with (much more relevant) Fantasy!

Imagine .. What if all of us looked alike???!!!
Now There arises the choices like whom should all the Humans look alike.?

Lets take 2 choices.

a) Aishwarya Rai.
or
b) Nelson Mandela.

I am sure that you are able to understand I have taken two opposites!

Aishwarya Rai is generally been the adjective to beauty even though many people do not subscribe that she is beautiful now.Nevertheless , she had been my first big crush and hence I believe she is or was beautiful.


Now if everyone looks like ASH.. Imagine..
Every person would look beautiful...

Positives:-
a) No Beauty Contests.. No Miss World , NO Mrs World.etc etc.
b) No selling of Fairness creams..
c) The World looks beautiful.
d) No gory people.. ( Even Beggars would be beautiful)

Negatives:-
a) People would forget ugliness as a factor.
b) Boredome!
c) Confusion of who's who?

Nelson Mandela has been an adjective to the Human Spirit!.He represented the Humans fighting against all odds.However sorry my friends , He looked ugly.

Imagine what if all of us looked like Mandela.

Positives:-
a) Hey!. Mandela would become the adjective of beauty!. No one is Beautiful after all.
b) The concept of Fair skin would become irrelevant.( It was what he fought for)
c) There is no Inferiority/Superiority Complex on Beautiful/ugly issue.

Negatives:-
a) The World becomes a ugly place. People would lose appetite for beauty.
b) Repeation, It is boredome..
c) Same.. Confusion of who's who.?

So, analysing the pros and cons and touch reality , it does feel that being oneself is what most prefer.

Whomsoever the Humans might look like the real beauty lies in the Heart of such a person i.e The Inner Beauty.(Fun apart , the ancillary objective of this blog was send across this message)

I would prefer to be a Mandela rather than ASH. I believe most of you prefer the same.

P.S.
I have not brought in the 'Gender' factor in this blog just to avoid 'complications'.(more so after being in the 'line of fire' on this topic of late ..lol)

Thursday, August 30, 2007

Viveka wil conduct cults this yr !!!

'idhu kadhai alla nijam.... '

Even though I have been handling cultural related work this year , I can now do so with authorithy and absolutely according to my wish since I am officially The Cultural Secretary of the Corporate department.

The first thing in my agenda is to conduct an inter-collegiate at Vivekananda college ( which is near impossible with the kind of narrow-minded management)..!!
I am confident I'll achieve the " mission impossible " this yr..

Also winning the overall at outside cults has been a distant dream.WE have always come second(thanks to filthy brats from Stella Maris.)I hope that this distant dream will surely be chased and acheived this year..!!

Remember all are not false promises..!!

I know it is difficult to please everyone...
All I can say is I will try to do my best...!!